Saturday, March 29, 2014

March Sadness

Wow.  A whole month without a post. Partly because there hasn’t been much to write about (I’m taking a wild guess you’re all quite happy I did not detail the major attack of Dehli Belly I had a few weeks ago, right?) but mainly because of my lethargy and unemployment depression. Most days all I can do is crawl out of bed to watch The Price Is Right, nuke a frozen burrito and have a nap until it is time to start drinking (five p.m.). And the initial enthusiasm for the volunteer stuff I was going to do at the hospice has died down (pun intended).

I have been without a job for 10 weeks now. The job market is practically non-existent (at my level, anyway). On Monday, I do finally have my first interview. The ironic thing is, though, it is for a job I did not actually apply for; rather, the company found my resume on one of the job sites I’m on and contacted me, not knowing I was actively looking. I’m not terribly excited about the company or the position but, rather, am looking at the interview as good practice.

But it has not been all doom and gloom this month, I guess. J. paid a visit, his first since his impromptu birthday visit here five years ago. We’re both on limited budgets so that put the kibosh on a lot of stuff, but it was great to catch up.

And then there is my “boyfriend.” (I was going to write “new boyfriend” but seeing as I have never had one before, he does not technically qualify as new.) I finally made arrangements to meet with T., who grew up with D. in “Boston” (I mentioned this briefly in the previous post). Nice guy. Seven dates in three weeks. Zero chemistry on my part. On his, the complete opposite: he is really into me, and was using the G-word after the third date (I still have not used the B-word without using real or air quotes). I’ll go into details at a later date (there was one date that was right out of a Hollywood rom-com) but this is really a classic case of Be Careful What You Wish For (and yes, PLL, I can hear you screaming, “Way to bury the lead” all the way from the Mountain Time Zone).